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What is the cake ribbon pull?

Peruvian & Latin American · also called ribbon pull, cake pull, cintas

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Ribbons are baked into the bottom tier of the cake, each tied to a small charm, with exactly one attached to a ring. Single women each take a ribbon and pull at the same time, and whoever draws the ring is said to be next to marry — the bouquet toss, with better photographs and no injuries.

How it works

Charms are tied to ribbons and tucked between the cake layers before frosting, ribbon ends left showing. Before the cake is cut, the single women gather, each takes one, and on a count everyone pulls.

The charms carry meanings that vary by family: a ring for marriage, an anchor for adventure, a heart for love, a coin for wealth, a thimble for independence. Every participant keeps hers, so nobody leaves empty-handed - which is the improvement on a bouquet toss.

Talking to your baker about it

The charms must be food-safe and wrapped, and the ribbons placed so they pull cleanly without dragging the tier over. A baker who has done it before will handle this without being asked; one who has not needs telling early.

It happens immediately before the cake cutting, which means it is a scheduled moment rather than a spontaneous one, and the cake has to be in position with guests gathered.

Planning it properly

A tradition only goes well if the people running your day know it is coming. These are the things to say out loud, and who to say them to.

Tell your baker at the order, not the week before
Charms must be food-safe and wrapped, and the ribbons set so a pull does not topple the tier. It affects how the cake is built.
Buy the charms early
Charm sets are ordered, and you need one per participant plus the ring. Count the likely number generously.
Schedule it right before the cake cutting
It needs guests gathered and the cake in place, so it belongs in the running order rather than happening whenever.
Tell your photographer to shoot the pull, not the cake
Everyone pulls at once and it is over in a second. The faces are the photograph.

Common questions

What is a cake ribbon pull?

Charms on ribbons are baked into the bottom tier of the wedding cake, one of them a ring. Single women each take a ribbon and pull together, and whoever draws the ring is said to marry next. Everyone keeps her charm.

What do the cake pull charms mean?

Meanings vary by family, but commonly a ring for marriage, an anchor for adventure, a heart for love, a coin for wealth and a thimble for independence.

How do you get charms into a wedding cake?

Your baker tucks them, food-safe and wrapped, between the layers before frosting with the ribbon ends showing. Tell them when you order, because it affects how the cake is constructed.

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