What are stefana in a Greek wedding?
Greek Orthodox · also called wedding crowns, stephana, crowning ceremony
Stefana are two crowns joined by a single white ribbon, placed on the heads of a Greek Orthodox couple during their wedding. The koumbaro or koumbara swaps them back and forth over the couple's heads three times, and the ribbon is the point: two crowns, one cord, one household with two heads.
The crowning
The priest places the stefana, then the koumbaro - the wedding sponsor, a role of real ongoing significance - exchanges them over the couple's heads three times, the number recurring throughout the Orthodox service for the Trinity. The couple wears them for the rest of the ceremony, including the ceremonial walk around the altar table.
The crowns mark the couple as the king and queen of their own household, and the joining ribbon says that the two crowns are one thing. They are removed by the priest at the end and kept afterwards, often in a purpose-made display case.
The dance of Isaiah
Still crowned and holding candles, the couple is led by the priest three times around the altar table in the couple's first steps as a married pair. The koumbaro follows, steadying the stefana so they do not fall.
This is the moment guests remember, and it is also a slow, circular, candlelit procession in a church - a genuinely difficult lighting situation that a photographer should know is coming.
Planning it properly
A tradition only goes well if the people running your day know it is coming. These are the things to say out loud, and who to say them to.
- Ask the church its photography rules first
- Orthodox churches vary widely on where photographers may stand and whether flash is permitted. Some restrict movement entirely during the crowning.
- Choose stefana you intend to keep
- They are a permanent object, displayed at home afterwards. Many families pass them down or have them made to order.
- Brief the koumbaro properly
- The three exchanges and the walk both depend on them. It is an active role, not an honorary one.
- Check hairstyles against the crowns
- Stefana sit on the head and are swapped repeatedly. Your stylist needs to know at the trial.
Common questions
What do the stefana symbolise?
The crowns mark the couple as king and queen of their own household, and the single ribbon joining them signifies that the two are now one. They are worn for the remainder of the ceremony and kept afterwards.
Who swaps the stefana?
The koumbaro or koumbara, the wedding sponsor, exchanges them over the couple's heads three times. It is a significant ongoing role in the couple's life, not just a ceremonial one.
What is the dance of Isaiah?
The couple, still crowned and holding candles, is led by the priest three times around the altar table - their first steps together as a married couple, with the koumbaro following to steady the crowns.
The vendors who make this work
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